Beth Ditto is best known for her singing and songwriting with Gossip and as a solo artiste, but after watching this video it’s obvious that her true calling is to become a spiritual guide/guru and maybe get a show on OWN where she can just toss off pearls of wisdom like these like it’s nothing: “Self-love is not selfish.” “Your opinion of yourself is what matters the most.” And our new mantra: “Don’t hang out with people who make you feel less than amazing.” More where those came from (literally):

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