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Ask a Grown Woman: Garfunkel and Oates

“Don’t stop being confident.”

Riki Lindhome and Kate Micucci go by Garfunkel and Oates when they’re writing and performing cute ’n’ comedic duets (our faves include a new social media–centric jam, and this holiday-themed classic). You can listen to whole albums of their music, watch them on TV (Garfunkel and Oates on IFC), see them live in concert, or tune in right here for their tender advice on bodies, boys, and literally leaning in:

Want an unbiased grown person to weigh in on the trials and tribulations of your LIFE? (Whatever works, right?!) Email your questions to with “Ask a Grown” in the subject line, and please include your first name (or your nickname or initials), your city, and your age.


  • emeraldruby November 25th, 2014 11:45 PM

    I love these two. So glad they did an Ask a Grown Woman! Awesome advice!!

  • Ozma November 26th, 2014 4:26 AM

    So great! Really fun and good advice

  • Hadewych November 26th, 2014 8:36 AM

    I can’t believe I didn’t know of Garfunkel and Oates!! Now I’ve just been watching their videos for the last hour ^^

  • Anne November 26th, 2014 1:24 PM

    They’re AWESOME! love their advice!

  • MonkeesFan November 26th, 2014 7:39 PM

    I absolutely adore Kate and Riki. I got to meet them after their show in Dallas this past August at the House of Blues, and they were so nice! As for their advice in the video… spot on, ladies. I agree with them 100%.

  • julalondon November 30th, 2014 9:46 AM

    All These Girls worrying about how their vaginas look make me so sad…i never really thought about the look about mine and i don’t know…the only Person who is gonna see your vagina should be a Person you trust with your life and you love and who (hopefully) loves or at least really likes you, so they shouldn’t care whether your vag Looks like in a porn they/you might have seen. Girls, just don’t give a shit about the look of your most precious Thing, JUST ENJOY IT FOR F*CKS SAKE and use it for what it’s actually made BECAUSE THAT’S WHY YOU HAVE IT and trust me THERE IS A LOT OF NICE STUFF to do with it and it REALLY DOESN’T MATTER AT ALL HOW IT LOOKS!!!!!!!=)