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Ask a Grown Man: Tunde Adebimpe

TV on the Radio’s frontman deciphers the hidden language of mixtapes, possible signs of impending breakup, and so much more.

Tunde Adebimpe is so many things at once: the lead singer of TV on the Radio and of Higgins Waterproof Black Magic Band (at Union Pool in Brooklyn this Sunday), a music-video director, the groom in Rachel Getting Married, and quite possibly the sweetest, wisest man alive, as proven in this video.

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13 Comments

  • Anaheed October 22nd, 2013 7:36 PM

    I am still swooning over this video.

  • HollinsCollins October 22nd, 2013 8:14 PM

    You guys should get Cecil Baldwin do to an ask a grown man!! That’d be the best thing ever :D

  • doikoon October 22nd, 2013 8:18 PM

    That was goood.
    (And this opinion has very little to do with the fact that I am a musician and he basically called us enchanters and wizards, which makes me feel like a very powerful, blonde norse god.)

  • dreamygirl October 22nd, 2013 8:34 PM

    awwww

  • Floraposte October 22nd, 2013 10:00 PM

    He was so sweet! I love how seriously he took it, now I desperately want someone to make me a mix-tape! Stuff diamonds.

  • fairy_grrrl October 22nd, 2013 10:15 PM

    I love TV on the Radio and this is really really cool

  • double-fantasy October 22nd, 2013 11:10 PM

    i want to be this man’s friend. he seems like such a chill and awesome person.

  • elliecp October 23rd, 2013 2:28 AM

    He seems so cool!

    http://roseandvintage.blogspot.com/

  • Wren October 23rd, 2013 7:37 AM

    Songs are spells ! SO GOOD !

  • julalondon October 23rd, 2013 1:04 PM

    He seem’s like an awesome person!!!! Can I please be his friend and hang out with him?

  • Abby October 23rd, 2013 9:44 PM

    This is perfect and I find his ability to raise one eyebrow absolutely WONDERFUL.

  • Mayabett October 24th, 2013 3:19 PM

    I think also when someone says they love you, they are not challenging you to say it back – it’s because they want to express that feeling. If you are not ready, don’t say it. You can always go for a kiss instead :)

    And maybe later on you will be ready, and then you can tell them, and they will love that!

    • Kamila October 26th, 2013 5:38 PM

      I really loved what Tunde said (especially the part about putting spells on people by making them listen to a certain song. That was beautiful and true, yet somehow I never looked at it that way) but I also loved your advice! Very practical and sweet :)