So a couple of weekends ago we threw a party with Urban Outfitters at their gallery/performance venue Space 15 Twenty in Los Angeles. There were cupcakes from Clara Cakes and drinks from Dry Soda and an interview with Rashida Jones and a live set by the Julie Ruin and dancing! And dogs!

One of the best things was a LIVE “Ask a Grown Man.” In case you’re wondering what Bill Hader has been up to since he left Saturday Night Live, now you know: answering teenage girls’ questions about boys. (And starring in The To-Do List with Aubrey Plaza and Clear History with Larry David and Jon Hamm and continuing to write for South Park—but probably mostly he answers teenage girls’ questions about boys.) He’s really good at it, too. See for yourself:

(And watch for some bonus Julie Ruin action at the end!)

Our heartfelt thanks to everyone who made Rookiefest possible, and to Bill Hader for being such a wonderful Grown Man. ♦

If you have a question about boys or girls (or anything!) for next month’s Grown Person, send it to youaskedit@rookiemag.com with “Ask a Grown Man” or “Ask a Grown Woman” in the subject line, accordingly. Please include your first name (or nickname or initials), city, and age.