Vampire Weekend have been the soundtrack of at least five of your summers, and in May they released Modern Vampires of the City to go for a sixth. The band is currently on tour in the UK and the States, and frontman Ezra Koenig and bassist Chris Baio set aside some time on the tour bus to giggle adorably while doling out advice on porn, staying friends with an ex, and how to ask out your crush.

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