Sex + Love

The Complete Guide to Kissing

Smooch unto others as you would have them smooch unto you.

Collage by Ruby A.

Collage by Ruby A.

Well, it’s happened. You’ve found someone you like. Someone you have a crush on. This is HUGE. OK this happens all the time—but this time it’s different: this time, this person you’ve been secretly obsessing over forever and who is so cute and sweet and nice and funny and smells good and is UGH SO PERFECT…this person LIKES YOU TOO. You like each other, and it’s amazing, like a needle-in-a-haystack, no-one-has-ever-felt-this-way-before, I-can’t-believe-we-found-each-other sort of thing.

You start hanging out more. You maybe go on a few dates. And then you want to kiss him or her.

This idea of kissing them starts to occupy your thoughts. You’re thinking about it all the time, and every time your beautiful perfect adorable crush talks, you can’t bring yourself to take your eyes off their mouth. You are staring creepily at their lips a lot.

Then one day your crush comes over and you’re playing video games on the couch (well, they’re playing video games; you’re watching the light from the screen reflecting off their face out of the corner of your eye) and…you snuggle a little closer.

Crush takes eyes off video game and sets them on you. You and crush lock eyes. And suddenly you both know: this is it. Your First Kiss is about to happen. You lean in and suddenly you’re in their face space, inhaling their warm breath, and then you gently, gently touch your lips to theirs like a butterfly who can’t decide whether to stick around or fly away and then it’s like a dam breaks and you’ve both wanted this SO MUCH and your crush grabs you and suddenly you’re really kissing and it’s so easy and so fun and so perfect and the music swells and as you lace your fingers through your crush’s you can feel in your heart that this is so, so right, and that was your first kiss—and it was better than you ever could have hoped.

That’s how every first kiss with someone new would happen if life were perfect.

But we all know how life really is, and while the first time you kiss someone is often absolutely lovely and wonderful and great, it can also be awkward, funny, terrible, gross, and occasionally—let’s face it—really, truly awful.

You don’t have to look far to find stories about kissing, images of people kissing, whole entire songs about kissing, and of course Ukrainian art installations where you can kiss a “sleeping beauty” but if she opens her eyes you have to marry her. But what about the actual MECHANICS at play here? What if you don’t care about the context or narrative surrounding the kiss but want solely to learn OMG what to do with your mouth when you finally start kissing people? Like, is there a “right” way to kiss? Major, fatal mistakes to avoid? What if you’re a bad kisser and you don’t even knowwwww??? This kind of information is a lot harder to obtain.UNTIL NOW.

I’m about to break down for you, step by step, the five basic types of kiss. (When you’ve advanced beyond these, you won’t need my help.) But first let me reassure you: Kissing is not hard, you do not need to stress about it, and you are most likely going to be an excellent kisser (maybe you already are). Kissing is just getting to know someone in a new way (like a handshake, but with your lips!), and all the good manners and putting-each-other-first type things we already do on the regular with our friends can easily be translated to kissing. If you’re a thoughtful, considerate person already, you’ll probably be a thoughtful, considerate kisser, without even trying very hard. The Golden Rule applies here: Kiss unto others as you would have them kiss unto you.

(Don’t worry if you aren’t sure how exactly you would have someone kiss unto you—we’ll cover that here.)

One final caveat: don’t feel like you have to follow anything I’m saying here. The truth is that any way of kissing is just fine, so long as you and your collaborator in this endeavor are enjoying yourselves. It really all boils down to your style. What follow are just some basics to get you started and to help you out on your own trip down lip-to-lip lane. (Yes I just said that.)

The First Kiss With Anyone, Ever

Ooooh, this is so exciting. First kiss! Yeah!

But before we get down to logistics, your first step should be asking yourself, “Do I really want to kiss this person, or do I just feel like I should?”

If you’ve never kissed someone, please do not listen to people you hang around with who act like it is everything. Judging by the number of emails sent to our various advice outlets each month by kiss virgins worried about either catching up with everyone else or staying that way forever, you’re in good, abundant company. No matter how old you are, you are not the only person your age who hasn’t had their first kiss. There’s nothing wrong with starting your kissing career before any of your friends; and there’s nothing wrong with graduating from high school or college without having touched your lips to another human’s. This isn’t a race, and it’s not like if you don’t have your first kiss now the window of opportunity will slam shut forever. You have all the time in the world. And don’t worry that people will ostracize you in college or that no one will want to have sexytimes with you when they find out that you’re not super experienced: college is full of virgins, including some kiss virgins, and being a curious, engaged partner is way more important than how many people you’ve done stuff with.)

Also: If someone wants to kiss you but you don’t want to kiss them…don’t. It’s OK. It doesn’t matter if they gave you a ride home or paid for the movie or took you to prom or saved you and your entire extended family, plus assorted pets, from a burning building: you don’t owe anyone close personal access to your lips. Plus, you’ll be kissing people for the rest of your life, so why not wait to kiss until you really want to?

And when your first kiss does happen, here’s something else to keep in mind: it might go really great or really badly or totally boringly or kind of weirdly or any of countless different ways, but no matter what happens, remember that your first kiss does not determine your kissing future. It’s a kiss you’ll remember, almost certainly, but it’s still just one kiss.


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  • alylee April 3rd, 2013 3:13 PM

    With my current boyfriend we definitely could use all of this advice… but then we got so comfortable together that now we make it a competition to be a worse horrible kisser than the other.

    • lizzyheinie April 3rd, 2013 9:49 PM

      Wait, that is the cutest/funniest thing ever and I love that. I’m totally pulling that on the next guy I get serious with. Rookie is the best.

    • Blythe April 4th, 2013 3:45 AM

      That is seriously one of the most adorable things I have ever heard.

    • wontantimo April 6th, 2013 10:04 PM

      My boyfriend and I do the same thing! We’re not the only ones! Huzzah!

  • rosiesayrelax April 3rd, 2013 3:15 PM

    Omygosh, it feels like I have waited a lifetime for a how to kiss. I mean, literally every magazine I read as a teen (I am still a teen, so I don’t know why I sound so nostalgic) was filled with “how do I kiss a boy” and blah blah blah, and the only answer they got was, “when you know you know” or “it’s instinctive”. Finally, a frank answer. Now just to find someone to practise on…

  • Arabelle April 3rd, 2013 3:27 PM

    i wanna kiss your face for writing such a perfect adorable article about kissing i love you krista

    • michelle vassar April 7th, 2013 10:15 AM

      i get this!!!!! haha!!

  • faithdarwin April 3rd, 2013 3:32 PM

    True story: I just had my first kiss this weekend. (It’s worth noting that I’m 21, so if you’re a teenager and feeling like you’re weird for never having been kissed, don’t worry about it). It was so unexpected and abrupt! I may or may not have gone to my computer immediately afterwards and googled “how to make out.”

  • Abby April 3rd, 2013 3:56 PM

    18-year-old kiss virgin over here. GUYS I WANT A FIRST KISS GODDAMN IT SOMEONE MAKE OUT WITH ME.

    • littlebirdmo April 3rd, 2013 6:33 PM

      I FEEL YOU

    • Kaetlebugg April 3rd, 2013 9:47 PM

      THIS ARTICLE. <3 that is all I have to say. (well that and I absolutely love the specificity and detail that, as other commentors have pointed out, is usually missing in the far inferior articles on the topic).

    • Roz G. April 4th, 2013 12:10 AM

      don’t worry I got my first kiss at 18 ;)
      it was… awkward hahahaha I had NO idea what to do with my mouth but I liked the guy so much I felt so comfortble blushing and apologizing about it being told that there was nothing to apologize for and well I’ve been with the give 5 months now and it’s been amazing growing to learn what he likes and what I like and more importantly what we like together.
      Don’t dispair :)

    • Miarele April 4th, 2013 5:06 AM

      GURRRL. I’m turning 20 this month and a total kiss virgin too and I’ve actually been thinking about it A LOT lately so when this article comes out I’m a little bit shocked by the irony.

      I feel you. Let’s all hold a prayer circle together.

    • Morning Moon April 4th, 2013 8:44 PM


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  • hellorose April 3rd, 2013 4:06 PM

    my first kiss was with my first ever boyfriend when i was 15/16. the very first kiss was very much of the gentle super nervous type. about half an hour later we were sitting on a park bench tamely making out. it was then i realised that he was REALLY into tongue. it was like being kissed by a hyperactive puppy. afterwards i called my friend and told her that maybe i didn’t really like kissing at all.

    later on in the relationship, when i was a bit more comfortable with him and with kissing, i tried the ‘i like it when we kiss gently, like this’ thing, even the ‘don’t do anything with your mouth and i will just kiss you, don’t move’ thing (which is quite mean), but to no avail. a friend of mine hooked up with him recently and confirmed the puppy likeness – nearly 7 years later and nothing’s changed! happily, although i rate him as one of the worst kissers i’ve encountered, his girlfriend after me said he was an amazing kisser so it just goes to show that everyone likes different things. our relationship didn’t last long for other reasons, though we are still good friends, but maybe there was a clue in the kiss.

  • rottedteeth April 3rd, 2013 4:16 PM

    Where was this article when I was having my first kiss? Would’ve saved me from nose bumps and a slimy chin.
    Thought you’d cover love bites though

  • MoniMonster April 3rd, 2013 4:27 PM

    Mmmmmh Kissing…

    Like this: ;)

    • Miarele April 4th, 2013 5:09 AM

      wow did you draw that? it’s amazing, I love the subtle details and the colors! :)

  • Taryn Aline April 3rd, 2013 4:50 PM

    Finally something that doesn’t say that kissing is something that you naturally know how to do.
    Hur, hur, hur.
    This was great and cute and I almost choked on my cake icing at least 3 times from giggling and squealing.

  • maxrey April 3rd, 2013 5:03 PM

    Oh gosh, this is a great article and advice I wish I had known when I first started kissing. Just don’t get drunk first, you guys. You’ll always look back on it and feel a little ridiculous that you can barely remember your first kiss.

    Also, if at first you don’t succeed, laugh it off, and try try again!

    • vatfp April 5th, 2013 6:59 PM

      The ‘dont get drunk first’ is great advice indeed. You’re not alone there my friend, hahaha

  • talaria April 3rd, 2013 5:03 PM

    Guys, I just wanna let y’all know that my first kiss was when I was 23, and I panicked so much that I have blacked the majority of it out. Then my kissee allowed me to halt proceedings, pull back, and start over. So basically. Don’t even worry about it!

  • Moxx April 3rd, 2013 5:10 PM

    “the feeling of a slack wet tongue resting in your mouth like a dead squid”

    I am actually eating fried squid right now pls stop ahahaahaa

  • Lydia Jane April 3rd, 2013 5:21 PM

    Krista: thank you thank you thank you for this article!! You’re officially my hero (and this article could not have come at a better time). I’m a 17-year-old ~kiss virgin~, probably mostly because I’ve always been terrified of doing it wrong. Reading this (and the comments) made me feel 50000% more relieved and much less embarrassed, haha. Stay fabulous x

    • soviet_kitsch April 3rd, 2013 6:17 PM

      don’t worry about it. my first kiss happened a few months ago, two weeks before i turned 17. i had a little crush on the dude and i asked if i could kiss him, and i was so exhilarated that when we were talking afterwards my heart was POUNDING and i was shaking lmao. it turned out to be from a totally unexpected guy, so don’t lose hope. it’ll happen for you and as long as you go slow and gentle you pretty much can’t do it wrong <3

    • kathryn-s April 3rd, 2013 8:58 PM

      I am also a 17-year-old kiss virgin but my reason is that I can hardly stand most of the boys at my little school. SOMEONE JUST MAKE OUT WITH ME ALREADY UGHHGHH

  • Jean. April 3rd, 2013 5:46 PM

    What about glasses? What if you’re kissing someone who also wears glasses? What if you take your glasses off and they’re like “ew i don’t want to kiss you anymore”?

    • maxrey April 3rd, 2013 6:17 PM

      Glasses don’t usually get in the way.

      And if he says “ew” then he doesn’t deserve to be kissing you anyway!

    • Becky S April 3rd, 2013 9:31 PM

      1) Glasses don’t get in the way, MOST of the time. But if you’re moving around a lot while kissing (e.g. changing head tilt directions), a few smudges are par for the course.

      2) If you both wear glasses, you’ll probably clink them together at some point – and people tend to either love the clink, or hate it.

      I can’t afford to replace my glasses if they get bumped out of alignment or otherwise damaged, so if I know >1 kiss is coming, I typically take them off first.

      3) If they like you with glasses on but not with them off, they’re not worth kissing! Your glasses are a medical device (unless they’re hipster glasses but that’s another story) and you have the right to deploy them as YOU deem necessary.

    • Alltomorrowsparties April 3rd, 2013 11:42 PM

      My boyfriend and I both have big ol’ Buddy Holly glasses. It was hilarious when we first kissed, they definitely got in the way, so I (CAREFULLY) took his off. Turned out it was a huge turn-on. Add a sly smile & don’t crunch them between your bodies while youre gettin into it and you’re good to go!

    • Blythe April 4th, 2013 3:47 AM

      Mine never got in the way, but my ex and I were never really the makey-outey type.
      Plus my glasses are fairly small, rectangular things that don’t really get in the way of anything.
      (Plus he thought they were hot which I found more amusing than anything else.)

  • billie April 3rd, 2013 5:47 PM

    This article is soooo helpful! I had my first kiss when I was ninteen, but I don’t think I count it because it wasn’t consensual. I was at a bar with my friend and a random guy came up and shoved his mouth on mine and it was awful!

    My real first kiss came a few months later when I was twenty and it was so much better! Pretty much exactly like a mix of the kisses described in the article.

  • Tyknos93 April 3rd, 2013 6:03 PM

    I just want this :

    • Morning Moon April 4th, 2013 8:47 PM

      We all want!!!!!!! I’ve always imagined my first kiss like this :)

  • Hannah April 3rd, 2013 6:57 PM

    Does anyone have tips on how to implement lip biting into said kissing session?

    • wudder April 3rd, 2013 10:30 PM

      i have only ever done this successfully with a boy who i have probably spent more than a month kissing cumulatively, so we really knew our ways around each others mouths. i tried it once with someone else and there was a lost of teeth clicking involved :s i think you have to be going really slow, and one time i was like HEY WAIT STOP I WANNA BITE YOUR LIP NOW!! and it wasn’t awkward and it was fun and lip biting occurred after that

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  • mrsfigg April 3rd, 2013 8:31 PM

    if you were drunk at a party with your same-sex best friend (I’m hetero) who pecked you on the lips, does that count as a first kiss?

    • Abby April 4th, 2013 8:46 PM

      Only if you want it to :)… One girl I know had a few drunken make outs, but she still counts her first kiss as when she kissed her now-boyfriend (while sober) lol.

  • Galadriel April 3rd, 2013 8:38 PM

    My first kiss when I was 13 was awful, but I did everything I THOUGHT I was supposed to and I was so scared! I was like “…That’s it? That’s what kissing is going to be like forever?” I never wanted to kiss again! Luckily, I’m a good kisser and got over that.

  • plushy1222 April 3rd, 2013 9:36 PM

    Even though i’m 18 and have had my fair share of kisses in the past, this was still really helpful to me. It’s never too late to improve your kissing skills!

  • finnfloats April 3rd, 2013 9:51 PM

    My best friend had her first kiss at her birthday last weekend; the girl I like just suddenly leaned it and kissed her (turned out, it was a dare). Later, my other friend dared ME to play Seven Minutes in Heaven with my crush, but I got into the closet (been there once before, didn’t like it very much xD)with her and started laughing. *facepalm* Well, I guess my first kiss can wait.

  • speechbubble April 3rd, 2013 10:02 PM

    My first kiss was a few months ago. (Guy was a jerk and now I know that, but…) It was really awkward and only lasted a few seconds. I peeked through my eyelashes and found his eyes open. Freaked me out so I pulled away…. yeah……..

  • tangratoe April 3rd, 2013 10:08 PM

    This came at the perfect time, thank you so much :P

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  • kellie April 4th, 2013 12:14 AM

    This is insanely good. Thank you, thank you, Krista.
    I was ‘dating’ a boy last year and sadly, had to lie and tell him “I don’t like PDA” to get him to stop kissing me hello/goodbye because it was just THAT BAD.
    I wish I could have linked him this article!

  • Blythe April 4th, 2013 3:49 AM

    I wish this had been around when I was dating my first (and only) boyfriend. I could have been like, “Hey! Let’s try using our tongues! This could be an Interesting New Experience and I read an article on it and everything!”

  • Grenade April 4th, 2013 4:54 AM

    I intentionally made my first kiss horrible. The guy who kisses me was much older and I got kind of scared so I figured that if I shove my tounge into his mouth really agressivly, he’d understand I was too young and he’d stop. It tasted bad, his moustache scratched my face and he didn’t stop despite my horrible kissing. I pretended his tounge was an alien creature that my tounge had to kill in order to save the world. Really yucky, I should have just said No in the first place

  • Miarele April 4th, 2013 5:03 AM

    haha Krista I’ve always loved your honest straightforward writing style. And I sing my praises to Rookie because only you guys would delve into a topic like this in detail. …Now all I need is someone to kiss. Yep. :|

    PS: don’t want to be the grammar snob to point it out or anything, but is “hearr” i paragraph 5 supposed to be “heart”?

    • Anaheed April 4th, 2013 5:15 AM

      Ha! You’re not a grammar snob — that was me doing a great job correcting what was a totally different typo w/ that word. Thanks — I’ll try to get it right this time.

  • Mary the freak April 4th, 2013 8:47 AM

    you deserve about all the kisses in the world like ever (totally platonic ones!) for this article!! really awesome!

  • Julia April 4th, 2013 9:03 AM

    hay dere rookie, just a quick question if anyone sees this – on the little theme sidebar on the side the submissions address is listed as but if you go to the actual submissions page (linked from the sidebar) the address is :(

    • Anaheed April 4th, 2013 9:09 AM

      They both go to the same place :)

  • Moili April 4th, 2013 9:08 AM

    Under step 2 of Oddly Agressive Kissing I thought it said “If this breast still isn’t getting your massage.” I think you all can imagine my surprise at that moment.

  • MabelEnchanted April 4th, 2013 9:11 AM

    Kissing virgin also over here!
    This was so weirdly detailed but very helpful..haha
    Time to get practising…

  • wallflower152 April 4th, 2013 10:28 AM

    I like all the stories in the comments. Kiss virgin until 17 and I thought I was a freak. And even then my first kiss was a dare with a guy friend. My second kiss came a month or so later with this dude I liked. I was so nervous I was shaking and he noticed and I was embarrassed haha so awkward to think about. But he was a good kisser so I just followed his lead and I think it went well haha. Crazy kiss story: I was kinda with this guy who was crazy handsome and had great hair…he was a horrible kisser and one time he sucked on my upper lip so hard it got SUPER swollen like literally doubled in size. I didn’t even know that was possible. Cute kiss story: my current bf well we were good friends for like five years before we got together and we liked each other for like four months without anything happening except hanging out everyday until 4am. I guess he was testing the waters cuz we started holding hands then he kissed my hand then a few days later my cheek then a few days later he kissed my cheek and then pecked my cheek then all over my cheeks and forehead slowly making his way to my mouth. <3

    PS This article is really awkward to read at work. :P

  • Dino April 4th, 2013 12:16 PM

    Ahhh thankyouthankyouthankyou!!!!!!!! I’m 17 and just got my first REAL boyfriend and we are both SUPER SHY and we awkawardly kissed really quickly about 2 weeks ago. Krista you are a lifesaver! Finally someone has enlightened me thoroughly!! :) So into the kissing-mission-field I go!

  • ___ellarose April 4th, 2013 5:39 PM

    Loved this article!!!!!! THANKYOU:) oh gosh.. my first french was TERRIBLE this dude stuck his tongue so fast and deep into my mouth i almost choked! FOR REAL.

  • poetess April 4th, 2013 8:15 PM

    Krista, seriously, thank you so much for this. I am on the verge of crying, I am SO grateful for this.
    (Melodramatic? Yes. Going on a second date tomorrow night? Also yes :D )

  • kati April 4th, 2013 8:51 PM

    Oddly aggressive kissing is totally my jam :D

  • sequoia April 4th, 2013 10:03 PM

    i wanna kiss now (▰˘◡˘▰) ahh

  • AriaZia April 5th, 2013 1:23 AM

    Ugh I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 17 and from the time I was 12-17 all I could think about was the fact that I was the ONLY one who was a kiss virgin. Rationally, I knew that wasn’t true but when you feel like that, no matter what people keep telling you, you just feel so singled out. That’s the way it was for me anyway.

  • A Fox In The Snow April 5th, 2013 10:32 AM

    Aww, thank you for this article! Even my friends haven’t given me such a detailed guide (“it just happens” — yup)
    I’m also so glad that there’s no-one besides me in this room, since I’ve been doing all the lip and tongue things while reading the article oops.

  • Sunshine April 5th, 2013 10:42 AM

    Blehhhh I wish my first kiss would have been with someone I actually cared about. I had my first kiss in 8th grade with a boy I was dating just to say I had a boyfriend because I was tired of being that girl who had never dated before. I sincerely wish somebody would have grabbed my arm and said “hey, guess what, chica? you don’t need to have a boyfriend to have fun in middle school.’”

  • Yani April 6th, 2013 1:54 AM

    Straight after kissing a guy for the first time, he pulled away after the second kiss and said ‘you kiss just like my mother’ and walked away. Then months later when I kissed someone for real I knew that really he was the unconfident kisser.
    Great article.
    Saddest is the kiss at the very end of a relationship on the cheek.

  • kendallkh April 6th, 2013 3:48 PM

    sometimes it’s genuinely frightening how perfectly timed rookie posts are

  • Kriemhild Gretchen April 7th, 2013 1:40 AM

    I think it would make more sense to use “them” as a gender neutral pronoun instead of “him/her”

  • Anosha April 8th, 2013 6:49 AM

    I dont like kissing- I like everything else but when someone kisses my lips I tend to make it last as short as possible. I find it kinda disgusting. I really want to enjoy kissing how can I? x

  • Wisteria April 9th, 2013 12:57 AM

    I used to obsessively worry about my level of experience until the day I realized that if a guy I really like had never kissed anyone before I wouldn’t give a shit, in fact, I wouldn’t even think about it. Now I don’t care anymore.

  • Nikilodeon April 14th, 2013 9:06 PM

    this is perfect! i’ve been curious about how to do this for so long!! thank you!

  • Viki GG April 18th, 2013 9:37 AM

    :) really cute kissing tutorial. I wish I had read it 10 years ago! It makes sense still anyway… and the Want / Should chapter is a must!!! Good job

  • Kelsey April 21st, 2013 1:09 PM

    I literally just had my first kiss two days ago (I’m 14) and while it was totally awesome and I really like the guy I was kissing, my lips were SO CHAPPED YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW. But otherwise, it was basically like a movie: we were at the creek by my house, and I asked if he wanted to kiss me. He said yeah, and BAM. Milestone reached, level up.

  • Paige Griggs May 4th, 2013 12:41 PM

    this is super helpful, thank you. I was so eager to have my first kiss that I did it with someone I didn’t know, and it was…bad. I thought kissing meant to have a make out session and I just kinda flopped my tongue around in this guys mouth, and then I pulled away because it was not enjoyable. He said, “try using a little less tongue next time. Wanna try again?” I said no thanks. So, he was sweet, but whenever I see him at school I get nervous because we don’t even talk and I kissed the guy, but Im too self conscious to talk to him. From now on I plan on kissing someone that I have an interest in and where I can actually really see what they look like, and someone that likes me too. I rushed into my first kiss, but I learned from it. I often think about my next one though, and who it will be with, and if we will have more than one, and if he will be the guy I hope he is. It’s hard being patient though. But then again when Im actually in the moment, I realize that I am willing to be patient. its nice to know so many people relate though :)

  • ERICKAX May 23rd, 2013 10:05 AM

    My boyfriend has a small mouth and he doesnt open it enough or even use his tongue. I have to physically force my tongue down his neck while restraining him. He moves his mouth like a fish.

    also, I dont know if I really like him. I only slept with him once and I was really drunk at the time. I only remember handing him the condom at the start.

    Am I normal? I often think about other men and I dont want to put all of this effort in teaching him how to kiss when I may leave him anyway.

  • swegan June 18th, 2013 12:55 AM

    OH MY GOD THIS ARTICLE I <3 IT SO MUCH I was giggling throughout the whole thing.

    And also partly being jealous because I dated a guy for a year and we never got past the intro kiss. That was partly my parents being all "you can't be alone with him EVAR" and partly our lack of communication- I only found out just recently he thought I never wanted to make out, and here I was the whole time thinking HE never wanted to make out. It's a very sad story.

    My first kiss, though (yes it was with this boyfriend) was like omg so perfect and under a tree at night in the summer and a total surprise and just AAAHHHH so at least there's that.

    Off to university next year… this article will hopefully get to come in handy. I JUST WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH CUTE SMART BOYS AHHH.

  • lemonadelagoon June 21st, 2013 4:42 PM

    I absolutely loved this article! I’m 18 and I haven’t had my first kiss yet, but I really love this boy and I have a feeling it’ll happen soon.

  • allie.x July 28th, 2013 1:04 PM

    Think you nailed it with this advice. Well at least it seems it’s worked for me as the guy I made out with last night said “That’s the best kiss I’ve had in ages.”. I’m telling myself he was being honest, either way I felt pretty good about it!

  • lucylu July 31st, 2013 1:30 AM

    I wish I had this a week ago! although my first kiss wasn’t too bad, I just didn’t know what to do so I kinda freaked out when he stuck his tongue in my mouth. ‘sall good now