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Ask a Grown Man: Jimmy Fallon

“Don’t be climbing in his window at night like Dawson’s Creek.”

TV host/comedian/actor/adorableness Jimmy Fallon wasn’t sure he was qualified to advise you on flirting with shy boys or how to tell if a guy like-likes you, but we love him for trying anyway, and knocking it out of the park:

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  • gnarlyelixir March 12th, 2013 3:09 PM

    AHHAHAHAHAHA I LOVE THIS MANN. THIS IS GOLDD. He looks so awkward too lol.

  • indaslicht March 12th, 2013 3:20 PM

    i haven’t watched this yet but oh my god??!?!?!

  • Imogen_Miss_Tutu March 12th, 2013 3:21 PM

    OMG!! I dreamt of the day Jimmy Fallon would be on Rookie! <3 Thank you lord!

  • LittleMoon March 12th, 2013 3:34 PM

    Jimmy Fallon knows what’s up.

  • Lauren Hartnett March 12th, 2013 3:35 PM

    Jimmy seems like such a sweetheart~ he gives really good advice too, I appreciate this video a lot. Hope he’s on again!

  • rockwrenroll March 12th, 2013 3:38 PM

    He was such a sweetie! So sincere and genuine.

  • indaslicht March 12th, 2013 3:43 PM

    aw what a cutie, but he gave such poor advice tho.

  • enthusiastictruckdriver March 12th, 2013 3:59 PM

    I don’t think there is a single Ask A Grown Man video that I don’t adore! I love Jimmy’s little smile at the end! This is perfect!

  • rosiesayrelax March 12th, 2013 3:59 PM

    the look… OF LUUUUUUUUV

  • Mary the freak March 12th, 2013 4:02 PM

    I haven’t watched it yet BUT THIS WILL BE AMAZING AAAAH!!!

  • Isil March 12th, 2013 4:08 PM

    JIMMY FALLON I LOVE YOU. I feel like I’ve just met him. So weird.

    And I’d like to say something for Naomi from Japan, I think you should watch “My Mad Fat Diary”. I think it would increase your confidence, because every single human being is beautiful and perfect.

    • littlebirdmo March 12th, 2013 5:09 PM

      I ADORE My Mad Fat Diary!!!

  • koalabears March 12th, 2013 4:28 PM

    OMG!! :D

  • babyybat March 12th, 2013 4:51 PM


  • hubbabubba March 12th, 2013 5:02 PM

    love the last bit, most people go on and on about how fast life goes and how you must make the most of it before its over, feeling very reassured Jimmy :)

  • Galadriel March 12th, 2013 5:04 PM

    oh my God I love him!

  • ♡ reba ♡ March 12th, 2013 5:09 PM


  • Ree March 12th, 2013 5:10 PM

    I was having a really hard day because my bunny passed away this morning but then I saw this and it made my day a little more bearable.

    Thanks Jimmy and Rookie :-)

    • Anaheed March 12th, 2013 5:39 PM

      Aw Ree I’m so sorry about your bunny!

      • Guinevere March 12th, 2013 5:49 PM

        I’m so sorry about your bunny! :( I’ve always had bunnies since I was in kindergarten, and this summer the last one died. I was sad for a really long time, so I know what you’re going through. <333

    • jenaimarley March 12th, 2013 6:08 PM

      Oh no!
      I am so sorry about your bunny! My condolences to you! What was its name?
      My family had bunnies for a long time, but the last one (Sweet Bunny in the Rock) died a horribly gruesome death and so now we just have our urban garden and chickens…

    • MaddieMae March 12th, 2013 8:15 PM

      I’m sorry about your pet! I’ve never had a bunny, but my family had to put down our dog this past September, the day before my sister’s birthday. So I totally understand the feelings, and I’m sorry for your loss. Our pets are part of our family, there’s not really any other way to put it.

    • Katherine March 12th, 2013 11:06 PM

      I’m sorry about your bunny; losing pets is the worst. Sending you hugs and prayers over the internet.

  • whodatgal March 12th, 2013 5:12 PM

    omg he is such a cutie! i haven’t watched it yet, but i hope he is good wid dis nananwww

  • wayffleos March 12th, 2013 5:25 PM

    Oh my gosh!!!! This is fucking amazing!
    I totally love Jimmy Fallon! I just KNEW you guys would have to have him be on ask a grown man!

  • Guinevere March 12th, 2013 5:47 PM


  • Hedwig March 12th, 2013 5:59 PM

    Jimmy be my everything! Be my bus buddy!

  • fashionforteens March 12th, 2013 6:03 PM

    This is too great! I love Jimmy Fallon. He’s so adorable and funny, especially in this video clip. I can totally identify with the person who asked the last question. You read my mind! I’m 17 and a senior in high school. I’ve also never been kissed (except as a dare at a party) and am so glad to know I’m not the only one. I feel like the rest of my school is hooking up constantly and I’m so left out. Hopefully things will change when I go to college next year, just like Jimmy said!

    • chloegrey March 13th, 2013 1:23 AM

      YES I totally am with you guys, that last question was like Jimmy Are You Staring Into My Brain Here. I only had my first kiss a month or so ago (I’m 18) and it was weirdddd and yeah. My friends used to tease me about it and they’re all really sexually active and it used to make me feel really bad and really worried that people would judge me. But you know what, I don’t really feel that way anymore… I think I had to become more confident on my own and it’s probably healthy and even though things are lonely now, I think that someone will appreciate the things worth appreciating about me and about you too and anyone. I think we all should feel ok with, like, trying to figure out who we are as a sexual person by ourselves. And also LOOK AT US ROOKIE LADIES WE ARE FABULOUS you know? And… not to get too deep here, but isn’t everyone pretty much worthy of some looove?
      *flips hair* CHLOE OUT

      • fashionforteens March 14th, 2013 10:39 PM

        Thanks Chloe! That’s so sweet and encouraging. I agree about becoming more confident. Not having to rely on a guy to make you feel good about yourself is probably a good skill to have:)

  • Marian K March 12th, 2013 6:03 PM

    This is so awesome :)

  • la fee clochette March 12th, 2013 6:09 PM

    been freaking out about life stuff like being out of college and no real job, no place of my own, no current plans, and my dreams feel stuck. but jimmy has given good advice. I need less stressin.

  • ArmyOfRabbits March 12th, 2013 6:20 PM

    I noticed he’s one of the nicest talk show hosts out there. What a cool man!

  • StrawberryTwist March 12th, 2013 6:58 PM

    AHhhhhhhhh this just made my day!!!
    it’s too perfect! :D
    I love Jimmy Fallon!
    He has such great advice!

  • Laia March 12th, 2013 9:00 PM

    aaahaha fallon this is so yay.

  • Lanier Hicks March 12th, 2013 9:58 PM

    I Love jimmy

  • Krista March 12th, 2013 10:23 PM

    i didn’t think i could possibly love him any more and now this.

  • Flyer March 12th, 2013 10:58 PM

    “You have to slowly… merge onto another human!” Hahahahahahahah.

  • Antionette March 12th, 2013 11:28 PM

    This is literally the best thing that has ever existed.

  • Anaheed March 12th, 2013 11:32 PM

    I wanna know who those people are in the photo above his left shoulder.

    • Mikayla Jendrusch March 12th, 2013 11:54 PM

      I’m 98% sure it’s him and his sister Gloria :)

    • chloegrey March 13th, 2013 1:24 AM

      ME TOO thank you for saying that I don’t feel creepy now

    • Manda March 13th, 2013 10:43 AM

      I didn’t notice it, but now I’m not going to be able to keep my eyes off of it.

  • EdieSedgwick March 12th, 2013 11:42 PM

    this is so cute

  • kathryn-s March 13th, 2013 12:03 AM

    Rookie, I love you.

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  • unicornconnect March 13th, 2013 3:36 AM

    ” Take care buddy”
    He cracks me up:):):

  • moonmaker March 13th, 2013 8:00 AM

    my goodness me jimmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

  • kennedychanel March 13th, 2013 10:52 AM

    I LOVE!!!!! So funny… and Im so glad someone decided to ask the question about shy guys!

  • Maradoll Mynx March 14th, 2013 2:49 AM

    I HEART J.F.!!!! He was being his total self without clowning and yet more adorable than ever…we need more of him around here.

  • all-art-is-quite-useless March 14th, 2013 12:29 PM

    that last question was ridiculously relevant, thank you so much!

  • SweetSarahO March 14th, 2013 7:36 PM


  • kati March 14th, 2013 8:47 PM

    this is so great!!!!!
    rookie you are the best!

  • InProgress March 15th, 2013 1:15 PM

    I have a question. Whenever Rookie posts a video, all that comes up for me is a black box. Do I need to download something like Adobe?

    • Phoebe March 15th, 2013 1:37 PM

      I’m sorry about that. What browser are you using?

      • InProgress March 15th, 2013 6:55 PM

        Internet explorer. It’s also on my phone, not sure if that has anything to do with it

  • Sea goddess March 17th, 2013 1:22 PM

    Hahahhahaha omgg Jimmy Fallon I love you!!!
    All his answers are actually pretty accurate! LOVE U ROOKIES!

  • InProgress March 17th, 2013 8:31 PM

    So I discovered if I download the Vimeo app I can watch the videos through the app on my phone :)

  • Candelle March 24th, 2013 9:11 PM

    This is so perfect I can’t even

  • glitter riot April 12th, 2013 7:58 PM

    THIS IS AMAZING I WAS CRYING TEARS OF LAUGHTER AND JOY. But seriously he’s so awkward and funny how can you not love him. Also I really think you should contact Henry Rollins and ask him to do an ask a grown man session! That would make my life!