Alex Karpovsky plays Ray, the cynical guy on our beloved Girls, but you might also recognize him as the mooch from another Lena Dunham joint, Tiny Furniture. Anyway, please allow him to guide you in the dubious prospect of staying friends with an ex and spying on your BF.

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